Law 9

Win through your Actions, Never through Argument

Any momentary triumph you think gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory: The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your actions, without saying a word. Demonstrate, do not explicate.

These quotes from the 48 Laws of Power are really helping me with my character during such a trying time.

Law 16

Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor
Too much circulation makes the price go down. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.

Law 10

Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky
You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.

Your present can be different

"Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could have been any different….”
— Oprah

We all fall short sometimes. You cant let someone's faults hold you captive forever. We all sometimes think in "shoulda, woulda, coulda's" but the fact is, you have the power to let go of the past. You can still do something with your present. Your present can be different.

I think that quote is going to be my next tattoo. I just don't know where yet.

Optimist VS Pessimist

Beware

"Beware of the man that tells you everything, you cant expect anything." -Angie ♥

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Sabotage

Aim for the heart battle of the sexes. All's fair in Love & War.Casualties expected.
This divorce could get so messy. I am trying so hard to play fair and help us to remain friends but the truth, it has a funny way of coming up.
There are just things in his character that are making things hard.
Financially this marriage has hurt me big time. I dont want to take him to court but... I dont want him to take the next girl out with the money he owes me and its a lot.










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I Just Want to be Loved

Don't feel no pity for me
Cause I'm going through a couple things,
Life means change,
That's the way it goes
All my life I had a constant burning
A strong deep,desire
An aching ambiguous,yearning,yearning,
yearning
For something better
For something bigger
For something wider
For something higher
And lots of regrets
Cause I ain't seem to found it yet
I've been searching around the world
Never knowing what to expect
I get sad sometimes
Yes I be mad sometimes
Cause I'm out here on the grind
Making mine
And I still can't seem to find
What I've been looking for
Opened so many doors
For real,yo
I just wanna be loved...

I wear my heart on my sleeve like its the new fashion

"In the 17th century a man would write the name of the woman he loved on his sleeve therefore the saying "I wear my heart on my sleeve"."

Stronger

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Oh Kanye

I know how it feels when the night demons come. We can’t let them control our hands and feet. Sometimes when it hurts so bad we have to just lay in the bed. Just lay in bed and don’t move Please, I know how it feels. I wish McQueen could have just been still. Don’t let the psychiatrists give you their drugs because it slows down your wings. Society and public opinion can beat the wings off of angels. When God sees they can’t take it anymore, he brings them home.

During this new album process sometimes I turn the music up and drink and cry. When something sounds so amazing and ground-breaking, I’m reminded of Why I live. I drink the pain of Now 2 Generations and breathe our melodies and messages. The music keeps us alive. I was blessed with the opportunity to bring my and others dreams to life. It’s like performing magic or something. It’s surreal. We bring the unrealistic to reality. Go Hard Go Hard Go Hard echoes in my dreams. When I wake up and brush my teeth and look in the mirror it’s like I see Michael and My Mom and Malcolm…Who’s that African in the background Mom? Oh, He created the original layouts for the pyramids, But was written out the history books and his MTV Award was given to “Aliens”.

There’s no such thing as fact anymore.

Oh Kanye I understand and I love you.

Wheres my Charlotte

Sometimes I wish I had a charlotte to tell my cheating ex husband "I curse the day you were born!"

In Love.....

How much do you give up when your hearts on the line?

RT @lovebscott "Actions speak louder than words... words are so easy to say... SHOW ME!"