Aim for the heart battle of the sexes. All's fair in Love & War.Casualties expected. This divorce could get so messy. I am trying so hard to play fair and help us to remain friends but the truth, it has a funny way of coming up. There are just things in his character that are making things hard. Financially this marriage has hurt me big time. I dont want to take him to court but... I dont want him to take the next girl out with the money he owes me and its a lot.